TheGoodFelo

" As humans, we don't always know how things will turn out for us, or how life will unfold from time to time, therefore, we must do our very best so that we do not contribute in any way to our failures in life ." -SOLA Soyele 🏵If we would succeed, we have to agree that there is an apparent link between our actions today and our realities tomorrow. We have to understand that our decisions and actions yesterday surely had inevitable consequences on our lives today, and this chain of causation is most likely to repeat itself. 🏵The truth may be easier said, it might be utterly difficult to act on, it could even be contrary to the desires of our human lives, yet, its effect will never diminish or lose its power. The real problem does not come with knowing the truth; it comes with acting in the light of the truth. 🏵Our actions today affect our lives tomorrow. Therefore, no matter how discouraged, or pessimistic anyone could be about their future, they must no

No matter how stagnant or regressive a person can be in life, we all are unavoidably bound to keep moving in time. Many hours come and go, and so do many years. Time is definitely no one's slave. No one can afford to buy time, literally. So, when a person says, 'I still have time,' I get shocked to my bones to imagine how much loss ignorance can bring. Even while you make such a statement as 'I still have some time,' you are already running out'. Can you still have something that constantly decreases? Can humans who 'naturally' only have a definite but constantly used 'time-credit' to spend boast to have time? A fixed 'life-time' is not like an amount of airtime or mobile data that can be frozen to remain fallow -unused. It's not like your wifi that you turn on and off at your will or discretion.           The purpose of this article is simply to remind us of the human predicament of being bound in a time that is set-loose off eve

I love to use perfumes a lot, I am usually very generous with bathing myself with different fragrances. What a paradox! It could sound funny, but how appalling is it that we spend time cleaning our bodies every day like rituals, yet our minds and hearts may still reek of so much self-loathing/self-hatred. Please, get my point, the issue isn't that we should not wash our bodies until we have learned to love ourselves. That will be a ridiculous thing to say. Moreover, how could we allow our hearts and minds to stink of shame and blame?      The point is, whether you agree or not, 'The only person who is responsible to love you unreservedly is yourself.' You owe yourself all the self-love you deserve. You cannot force any intelligible human being to love you the way you deserve. Or maybe, the problem is rather that many of us don't think we deserve to be loved, or that we worth anything at all. Maybe we should begin from there.      I don't have to meet with yo