How To Be A Good Companion: 004 Recommendation.

Stop expecting your companion to always see things your way. Seriously, people seem to forget that no two persons have absolutely the same personality without a measure of peculiarity. We grow up differently: different locations, family upbringing, acceptable lifestyles, personal preference, age-long habits and tendencies, life approaches and so forth. We can't exactly be the same no matter what. Each person is yet entitled to have their unique and personal variations. We are all expected to eventually shape our variations within a reasonable span of time, so as to live better lives and be better members of the global human community. Don't expect people to always suit your requirements. Everyone is entitled to be different in their own way. In other words, don't expect perfection from anyone. Perfection here refers to having no flaw in one's sight. Remember, we are not exactly angels, we are humans. It's quite funny, I guess, right? Well, this knowledge of our differences doesn't therefore mean that a person should be unnecessarily rigid just because their companion is understanding, when you 'can' work on making life better for both you and your companion. Don't be exhausting! I really get to wonder why some people 'often' get upset when someone else doesn't see things their way. We can't always agree: the way I order my things or the liberty you indulge yourself in that allows you put things any way as long as they are harmless and safe.
For a healthy relationship, the way forward is: don't expect your companion to be perfect as regards meeting your expectations and sharing your preferences; and in the same light, 'thou shall not' stress your companion just because they are trying to be understanding. In other words, 'develop yourself to meet good standards, and enjoy the grace you have to be different.' We are entitled to being our unique selves always, as long as we don't make life hard for ourselves and (others) our companions. What do you think?

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  1. I think you are.. ..
    All shades of right!
    More grace bro!

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    1. Yeah. Thanks a lot for sharing your opinion. 🙏👍

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    1. I'm grateful for your appreciation 🙏. Thanks you!

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  3. brilliant...thanks for sharing this great piece

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    1. Thanks Phronesis for your sincere reviews so far. Moreover, I'll love to know you personally. I hope to hear from you soon. 🙏👍🤝

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  4. What if I can't meet up to my companion's standard?

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    1. That's the point Marvey! If you "can't", then it's a sacrifice on your companion's path. If they are meant for you, then they should appreciate you just as you are. Next Monday's post will address your question so well. I'd love to hear from you again. Thanks for pointing that sensible question out. 🙏🙏👍

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