How To Be A Good Companion: 003 Recommendation.

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Confession is totally helpful and expedient in every relationship. For crying out loud, you like somebody, so, why is it so impossible for you to ever mention it in your whole life? Some people mention it quite often before their relationship is well bonded, then afterwards, they assume that their companion should just have known it already. Little things like this strengthen your relationships, and the absence of them when necessary definitely hurts a whole lot. You are entitled to hearing a reassuring confession of love and value, just as much as your companion is entitled to it too. Well, I guess that someone might be right to think that once you begin to make these valid confessions, your companion could abuse your honesty by being egotistical. This is why this act has to be mutually practised. Hence, if you are reading this alone, you could be at a detrimental end. Now, confession is a salient action needed to maintain a healthy relationship in both distant and near relationships. You may not want to overdo it so it doesn't lose its value. However, if you are being sincere, it can't be too much (for me), it only surely affirms the depth of your affection, and it can reassure anyone of their true place in your heart. Imagine your companion affirming that you are important, valued, and truly loved, that they'd be so unfortunate to think that they could ever lose you, how good and positive would you feel? It has to be mutual, or else it would be abused. Thanks for the read.

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  1. UnknownSaturday, 09 February, 2019

    Words of affirmation are very important in any relationship
    Good read

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  2. UnknownSunday, 10 February, 2019

    This is a very realistic post...love is meant to be shown...don't assume someone feels the same way if you haven't expressed it...well done dear...more ink to your pen...thumbs up

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    1. Sola SoyeleSunday, 10 February, 2019

      Thanks for reading and commenting. You have said well, really. 🙏🙏 Thank you so much! I do not take your sacrifice of time for granted.

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  3. UnknownFriday, 22 February, 2019

    I just read all the articles you've posted on this platform and I must say they are beautifully written and well conveyed. You're doing a great job Mr. Sola. I look forward to your next article.

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    1. Sola SoyeleSaturday, 23 February, 2019

      I'm overly delighted to hear this from you. Thank you so much. I will strive to never disappoint your expectations. 🙏🙏🙏

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  4. UnknownFriday, 22 February, 2019

    I must confess, it does wonders to one's emotion especially in my down moments .....more creative writing dear#thumbsup

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    1. Sola SoyeleSaturday, 23 February, 2019

      I know, too, right... It could be an awesome dose of unimaginable wonders. 👍🤝🙏 Thank you so much.

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